Puppy 101: Sit, Stay & Come Made Easy
Surprising fact: puppies learn faster with 5-minute sessions than hour-long drills. This guide gives simple, step-by-step methods to teach sit, stay, and come using positive reinforcement. Expect short, fun repetitions, clear progression, and realistic goals.
This is for new puppy owners, caregivers, and anyone who wants a low-tech approach that works. No special gear required—just treats, patience, and consistency.
By the end you’ll know how to start each cue, build duration and distance safely, and troubleshoot common hiccups so training stays fun for both of you. Ready? Let’s make training feel joyful.
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Getting Ready: Supplies, Timing, and Puppy Mindset
Essentials you’ll need
Before you start, gather a few simple items so practice is smooth and distraction-free:
If you prefer gear names, the Starmark Pro-Training Clicker and Zuke’s Mini Naturals (or Wellness Soft Puppy Bites) are reliable, easy-to-handle options that many owners use for early sessions.
Picking the right treats & why timing matters
Choose soft treats that can be eaten in one bite and smell enticing—chicken, cheese, or the elk/venison above. For puppies that are teething, soft chews or mashed wet food works better than hard kibble.
Timing is everything: mark the exact moment your pup does the right thing, then deliver the treat within one second. The marker (click or “Yes!”) creates a precise bridge between action and reward—think of it as a tiny archive note your puppy files away.
Session length & reading your puppy
Puppies have short attention spans—aim for 3–5 minute focused bursts, 3–6 times a day. Watch for signs your pup is done: repeated yawns, wandering nose, ignoring you, or sudden hyperactivity. Stop before frustration sets in and finish on a small success so the pup remembers the win.
A quick real-world tip: when my neighbor’s border collie pup started yawning mid-session, we switched to a game of tug or a walk and returned to training later refreshed.
Creating a positive training atmosphere
Use a calm, upbeat tone. Minimize distractions (TV off, other pets out of the room) and have everyone in the household use the same cue words and hand signals—consistency speeds learning enormously. Reward only the behavior you want: don’t give attention if the puppy jumps up expecting a treat.
Safety notes & realistic expectations
Never force a puppy into a position. Watch for fatigue, overheating, or teething discomfort and shorten sessions as needed. Remember: mistakes are normal. Your puppy will be imperfect at first—patience and repetition win.
Next up: we’ll dive into the first cue—how to teach “Sit” step-by-step so the puppy understands clearly and confidently.
Teaching Sit: A Step-by-Step Starter
Teaching “sit” is one of the fastest wins you’ll get with your puppy — and it’s the foundation for many other cues. The trick is clear timing: lure the behavior, mark the instant it happens, and reward. Here’s a simple, repeatable method anyone can use.
Step-by-step: lure, mark, reward
Variations for shy or stubborn puppies
For shy pups: use low-key, high-value rewards (tiny pieces of wet food), make smaller lure movements, and reward with soft praise. If your pup backs away, try luring from above more gently or sit beside them and guide the hips with a flat hand under the rump (never lift).
For stubborn or highly motivated pups: use something irresistible (cheese, freeze-dried liver) and shorten sessions to 3–5 reps so they stay engaged. Turn “sit” into a game by immediately following with a play reward (short toss) so they learn sit = fun.
Clicker tip: if you use a clicker, pair it with a treat 10–20 times first so the click means “treat.” Click the instant the rear hits the floor — the click’s precision helps puppies learn faster than a spoken word for many owners.
Troubleshooting common problems
Progression tips
Proof sits in different rooms, on carpet, tile, grass, and with other family members. Gradually increase sit duration by a couple of seconds each week and reward intermittently (random jackpot treats) so the behavior stays reliable. Next, we’ll build on sit to teach “stay” with safe distance and duration progressions.
Teaching Stay: Building Duration and Distance Safely
You’ve got a reliable sit — perfect. Now turn that into a solid stay by starting tiny and building in both time and distance. Think “micro-wins” that stack into a dependable behavior.
Start with a one‑second stay
Quick real-life tip: I taught a friend’s 12‑week old Lab to stay by literally counting “one—okay!” and rewarding — within two days the pup happily held position for three seconds because the tiny wins were easy to repeat.
Increasing duration slowly
Add distance in baby steps
Using a mat as a visual boundary
A mat gives a clear “stay here” spot and reduces confusion—think of it like teachable real estate. Compared to a towel or rug, a foldable waterproof mat keeps edges visible and is easy to carry for park sessions. It helps puppies understand where to plant themselves and speeds generalization.
Keep sessions upbeat and short
Troubleshooting
Fading food rewards
Move from treat at every success to intermittent reinforcement: reward every 2–3rd correct response, then randomize (variable ratio). Keep high-value treats for proofing, but use praise, petting, or a quick play session as occasional rewards to maintain reliability.
Teaching Come: Reliable Recall with Fun and Safety
Teaching come is all about making “come” the most exciting two-syllable phrase in your puppy’s life. Start small, keep it joyful, and stack easy wins so your pup learns that returning to you = party time.
Make “come” irresistible
Begin indoors with low distractions and short distances. Use high-value treats (tiny bits of cooked chicken, freeze-dried liver, or a favorite squeaky toy) and an upbeat, animated voice. A quick real-life win: a distracted 12-week-old pup who ignored kibble came running for a single soggy cheese cube — suddenly the cue mattered.
A simple, repeatable three-step pattern
This predictable pattern builds clarity and excitement every rep.
When you move outdoors, pair recall practice with a long-line for safety. A 20–30ft nylon or biothane long-line balances freedom and control; compare nylon lines (lightweight, affordable) to biothane (durable, easy to clean).
Games that build enthusiasm
Quick tip: keep sessions short (3–5 minutes) and end with a win.
Common mistakes to avoid
Troubleshooting poor recall
Proofing strategies
Next, we’ll look at short training plans and simple ways to track progress so these new recall skills stick in everyday life.
Putting It Together: Short Training Plans, Troubleshooting, and Progress Tracking
Quick 10-minute session template
Warm up (1–2 min): gentle play, eye contact, 3 easy sits to score quick wins.
Two focused drills (6–7 min): 3–4 short reps per drill, increasing challenge each rep.
Fun finish (1 min): play or jackpot treat to end on a high note.
Example session A (morning):
Example session B (evening): swap in a longer stay or longer recall outdoors on a 20–30ft long-line (nylon vs. biothane long-lines: nylon is light and cheap; biothane is more durable and easy to clean).
4-week beginner progression chart
| Week | Duration (Stay) | Distance (Come) | Distraction level |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 2–5s | 3–10ft (indoors) | Low (quiet room) |
| 2 | 5–10s | 10–20ft (yard, long-line) | Low–moderate |
| 3 | 10–20s | 20–30ft (park, long-line) | Moderate (people/dogs at distance) |
| 4 | 20–30s | 30ft+ (off-leash only if reliable) | Higher (nearby distractions) |
Increase one variable at a time: duration, then distance, then distractions.
Troubleshooting flows
If your puppy regresses: go one step back (shorter duration/distance), up reward value, and re-establish fast wins.
If bored: shorten sessions, change rewards (toy, game, different treats), and add movement-based drills.
If fearful: stop, reduce intensity, pair the cue with calm rewards, and rebuild confidence in a quieter place.
Seek professional help when: fear/avoidance persists, aggression appears, or progress stalls for several weeks despite adjustments.
Motivation & consistency for families
Track progress & maintain gains
With these bite-sized plans and simple tracking, you’ll keep momentum and set your pup up for lifelong success — next up: Wrap-Up: Keep It Fun and Consistent.
Wrap-Up: Keep It Fun and Consistent
Sit, stay, and come are absolutely achievable with short, regular sessions, positive rewards, and plenty of patience. Keep sessions fun and simple, celebrate tiny wins, and let your puppy set the pace. Consistency beats perfection—short daily practice will turn these basics into reliable habits and a calmer, happier dog.
Start today with tiny, joyful steps—five minutes a few times a day is powerful. Track progress, tweak when needed, and always end on a positive note. Enjoy the growing bond; training is as much about connection as obedience. Ready, set, play—and watch your puppy shine.
I appreciate the safety notes, but wanted to flag the ultrasonic bark deterrent — check with your vet before using on young pups. There are reports some devices bother sensitive dogs. The recall leash and mat are solid though; the nylon 30ft line is surprisingly lightweight and made my outdoor recall sessions less frantic.
Anyone else worry about electronic devices and long-term behavior effects? Curious how others introduce tech in training.
I’m cautious — I view tech as a temporary tool, not a fix. Rely on human-led training as the backbone.
I used a rechargeable deterrent for barking only after consulting a trainer; we paired it with counter-conditioning so it wasn’t just punishment.
Yup — context is everything. If you do use a device, monitor closely and have a fallback plan (like more training sessions).
Totally valid concern, Laura. We recommend prioritizing positive reinforcement and using tech sparingly and as a last resort. Always watch for stress signals and stop if the dog seems upset.
Really appreciated the short training plans. I made a 2-week micro-plan using the article: morning 3-min sit drills, midday recall on the 30ft leash, evening journal notes. It’s small but consistent and my pup responds way better than marathon sessions.
Also, Wild-Sourced Elk & Venison Training Treats smell like crazy — great for high-value rewards. Anyone else mix treat types during sessions?
Haha my dog prefers socks over treats. But when venison appears, he acts like royalty.
I use kibble as baseline and elk as jackpot. Works great for recall tests in the yard.
Pro tip: freeze the treats into a Kong for long chew sessions after training. Keeps them calm and rewarded.
I rotate treats. Chicken for regular reps, venison for big distractions. Keeps him guessing and motivated.
Love the micro-plan approach — that’s exactly the kind of consistent habit that works. Mixing treat values is smart: low-value for warm-ups, high-value (elk/venison) for tough distractions.
Loved this — super practical! The step-by-step for “sit” was exactly what I needed for my 10-week lab mix. I bought the Dual Pet Training Clickers and Wild-Sourced Elk treats after reading and they actually helped a ton. Quick tip: use tiny treats so they don’t get full too fast 😅
Also starting a puppy journal (My Puppy Journal) like you suggested is a game changer for tracking when she learns things. Thanks for keeping it simple!
Omg yes to the tiny treats. I cut up treats into like pea-size bits and still see results. Also the clicker + treat combo is magic for fast learners.